Today, we laid Karabo Mokoena, a victim of murder at the hands of the man she loved, to rest at the West Park Cemetery in Johannesburg.
Of those in attendance at the 22-year-old’s funeral were some of the ANC Women’s league members who have been explicitly clear that they condemn any form of violence against women and children. Also present were the cell group, Kings and Queens, who Karabo Mokoena was a part of.
Karabo Mokoena was wheeled into the venue in a pearl white coffin led by the priest and followed by her family. Speaking of who Karabo was to him, Linda Makhanya, one of the founders of Kings and Queens said: “Karabo had so many convictions. She told me on a night when we spoke about some of these that: ‘I’m going to speak and convince people that the Bible is the most powerful book in the world.’
Minister of Social Development Bathabile Dlamini was also in attendance, along with Susan Shabangu, the South African politician and minister of women in the Presidency.
They both spoke strongly against violence against women. Dlamini strongly encouraged women to leave once they spotted signs of abuse in their relationships. She noted that in situations such as these many love to include politics and strongly discouraged this.
“Let us stop politicising issues that affect us on a daily basis because we are misleading our children,” she said
Dlamini voiced her stance against the ‘Men Are Trash’ hashtag,
“I’m against the Men Are Trash hashtag, but those that say not all men must stand up and say not in my name!” she said
Shabangu on the other hand posed a challenge to churches and to men all over the country to not just pray and let them return to their abusers but rather to offer support and safety.
“Our women are angry because we believe that our men are letting us down we live in fear because we can no longer even walk we are scared,” she said
The most emotional speech by far was made by Bontle Mokoena, Karabo Mokoena’s elder sister, when she finally said goodbye.
“This is the toughest thing I’ve ever had to do in my life,” she said before starting and began reading out a heartfelt letter that her sister, Karabo, wrote to her parents in 2015.
“You have left a whole in my heart, and I thank my parents for bringing you into my life. I love you with all my heart. When I look at this coffin it’s hard to believe that it’s you in there,” she choked.